Bible Verse: “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:44-45 ).
In today’s world, it seems like polarization defines our interactions. Political discussions, cultural differences, and even disagreements in the church turn our neighbors into enemies in a heartbeat. Social media has created an amplified negativity where the comment section becomes a battle. Yet, as Christians, we are told to live out the first fruit of the Spirit, love (Galatians 5:22), but how is it possible to embody love in a polarized society?
Jesus’ command to love one’s enemy is one of his “hard sayings.” It does not refer to loving from warm feelings in our heart, but rather, a choice to act with kindness towards people whom we might disagree with. In a polarized society, this simple action can look like listening to a person with a different perspective, without arguing, or even praying for a politician whom you disagree with. It is not the way of the world to respond to evil and hostility with grace, but that was modeled by Jesus on the cross through his prayer for those who crucified him (Luke 23:34).
To practice this in real life, start with simplicity. The next time you are quick to respond and potentially leave a heated or upset reply to someone online or face to face, stop to pray for the person instead. See to try and understand the other person’s perspective even if you do not agree. If you want to take that the next step, in your place of work or community, can you serve alongside others who think differently than you.
This is not simple. I have had a hard time loving those who have hurt me or ridiculed my faith. What I have found is that when I pray for them, it changes my heart. It opens space for God’s love to be at work through me. It is not about saying that what they do is right but instead reflecting the love of the Father. The Father loves the “righteous and unrighteous” (Matthew 5:45).