We all need people in our lives. Good friends make hard days better and happy days even brighter. But not all relationships are the same. Some drag us down, while others help us grow. The book of Proverbs has a lot to say about choosing friends wisely and seeking good counsel.
One powerful verse says, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17, ESV)
Picture two iron blades rubbing together to sharpen each other. That is what true friends do. They challenge us, encourage us, and help us become better people. Good friendship is not just fun. It makes us stronger and wiser.
Proverbs 17:17 tells us, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” (ESV)
Real friends stick around when things get tough. They do not disappear when you are struggling. They show love no matter what season you are in.
Here is a warning we all need. Proverbs 13:20 says, “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” (ESV)
Who you spend time with matters. Wise friends pull you up. Foolish ones can lead you into trouble, bad choices, or regret. It is that simple.
Proverbs 12:15 points out, “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.” (ESV)
Proud people think they know everything and ignore counsel. Wise people seek input from others they trust.
And Proverbs 15:22 adds, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” (ESV)
Big decisions go better when we talk them over with godly, experienced people. Good counsel saves us from mistakes and helps plans come to fruition.
In everyday life, this means choosing friends who love God and want what is best for you. It means being the kind of friend who listens, speaks truth kindly, and shows up when needed. It means asking for advice instead of going it alone.
I have seen bad company lead people into poor choices that took years to fix. But I have also seen strong friendships carry people through loss, failure, and doubt. Those friends prayed, listened, and pointed back to the truth.
True friendship is a gift from God. Wise counsel is protection. Do not settle for shallow connections. Look for people who sharpen you and walk with the wise.
Take a moment to thank God for the good friends you have. Reach out to one today. And if you need counsel, ask someone trustworthy for it.
What about you? Who in your life sharpens you like iron? How can you be that kind of friend to someone this week?